Have you ever grown apart from a friend?
Several friends?
Almost always grow apart from your friends?
Does everyone else just suck compared to you?

where did you meet your significant other?

some other places you know to meet new people?


i live in a small town, and everyone who isn't lame, i already know. it's annoying.
i have no SO, but the most recent ex and i met through friends, he was in a crappy metal band with boys i went to high school with.

Before you marry (or before you did marry) or shack up for life, would you be certain you and your partner were on the same baby or no-baby page?

Would them changing their mind be a deal-breaker for you?

Is there ever a way to compromise when it comes to having or not having babies?

is there something you'd like to tell me?

1) What was the last thing you worried about that didn't really matter in the grand scheme of things?

2) For those of you who watch So You Think You Can Dance, what did you think of tonight's results? (spoilers, obviously)

3) I should really be going to sleep, since I have to be and driving at 4 am. What helps you get to sleep?

1. Would you rather be hot or cold.

2. If you give me your opinion of me I will give you my opinion of you.

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/CaseyChu/journal
Anything you think should be added to the list?

Edit
For those that don't feel like reading, it's a list of Do's and Don'ts for online dating site profiles. One of the things I listed was that you shouldn't insult yourself in your profile. Some kid commented
Fuck that, I'll insult myself if I want to. I don't care what you think. Are you saying you want less honesty? Seriously, if you don't mention any problems you have along with your strengths then you're starting out with a lie.

Would you respond well to someone that spoke negatively about their looks or personality in the very first thing you ever read about them?

Why is this whole 'man giving birth' thing so hard to understand? My local news reported on it, and used the words 'allegedly gave birth' and 'so-called woman' during the story. It's odd, but really.. it's the 21st century. if you have test tube babies, this isn't so weird.

Hi all.
Well, when I breathe, my ribs hurt.
Also, I hope everyone has a good 4th of July.
I'm saying that now because I will not be writing in the journal tomorrow.
All I wanted to say is that I have to learn to give things a rest.
What I mean by that is that I have to stop asking Doug so many times about something.
Even he says "Give it a rest."
Which is completely understandable.
In other news:
I've spoken about we had a plumbing problem a week or so ago on my podcast.
And the talking scale that Doug has had stopped working do to water on the floor.
So we let it dry out for a few days.
Anyway, being that it didn't work, Doug had purchased another one from Maxiaids.com
So finally tonight, the scale did in fact work when I went on it.
So Doug said I can have it.
But the thing about that scale is that sometimes it is a little off.
But I believe that that can be worked around.
I mean Doug pointed it out this way.
Let's say you are like 145 lbs or so.
If it says something like 140 to 144, you know you are in that weight range.
Speaking of weight, I am 155 lbs.
Now after stepping on the scale a little later, it said 157.
Hmm, there's not much else to write about here.
Well, i'll update later.
Oh one more thing before I end this lovely little entry.
I haven't written in the blog I have in some time.
.
You know the one.
http://www.cl79.blogspot.com
Me thinks I'm going to update that either before I go to bed, or some other time.
I'm thinking some other time as I'm tired.
No nevermind. I'll update it now.

Do people around you somehow seem to make their fireworks last from July 3 - January 1st? I will seriously be hearing these fireworks all the way into December. :/

1. What was the most unhealthy food purchased on your last shopping trip?

2. Does it bother you when people clap during/after fireworks? If so, what would be a fitting punishment for the offenders?

3. What's your inseam?

( for those of you who went to community college )

dear somebody,

i really don't think you ever cared. you would contact me if you did. i just worry and hope you're all happy and what not. i shouldn't even think twice about you or waste my thoughts. if you would like to know, i'm very happy. i found something better than you.

:)

Hello my fat homies.

I am a long time lover of Lip Service clothing and they have a poll up currently about what people would like to see. There are options in the poll to indicate more plus sizes.

I think Fat folks need to represent.

I recently wrote a whole big thing about their current plus sizing/line and you can see that in the lippy_addicts community here. To see the size chart I am referring to see here.

I didn't even get into the fact that the sizing on the individual items doesn't even go with any of their listed sizing.

I had an all too brief email exchange with their CS people and haven't heard anything back. I really think they need to hear more about it.

I pointed their staff to this community and the Flickr community but I don't know if my yammering will make much of a difference. However a bunch of us giving some feedback would be awesome.

It's kind of difficult to actually find the plus size clothes so here is a link to their current three pieces.

I might be an aging goth but damn it I still want my kick ass clothes. Feel free to link this to your plus sized goth homies or other interested parties.

ETA
I got overexcited and forgot to link the poll here it is.

I just got this today... Go to Etsy.. her stuff and her work is fabulous!

What's a weird song that gets you hot? by weird, I mean a song that wouldn't normally be expected.

What's your favorite sport's team?

So I was having a good day..Woke up in the morning..felt the good achy feeling that comes from working out the night before..Chose a cute outfit and actually liked the way I looked in the mirror..

Then I come to work and log on to Friendster..And there's this ^*^$#%$#*Q% useless girl (whom I DONT know) commenting on my pics..Like 'Lose some weight pig'..Ive dealt with crap like this before coz I have a semi popular blog where I come from..And I always get anon comments on my pics. Ive learnt to ignore these fools but it still hurts everytime I see them. I just DONT understand why someone would actually waste a minute of their life to sit down, browse through the photos of someone they dont even know and make anon hurting comments. I know its the Internet and freedom of speech and all that jazz..But it still sucks..

Hmph..

Rant over.

Do you hate texting?

I just had a text "conversation" with someone and I have no idea what actually happened because it lacked the subtle nuances of language and voice. How annoying.

TQC, it's 10:30 and I'm so drunk/tired I can barely see.

What's the last pathetic thing you did?